PATRICK CLANCY, HUSBAND OF MASSACHUSETTS MIDWIFE, LINDSAY, ACCUSED OF MURDERING THEIR THREE YOUNG CHILDREN SAYS HE FORGIVES HER, AS HE GIVES SEARING INSIGHT INTO HIS “EXCRUCIATING AND RELENTLESS” GRIEF. Daniel Whyte III President of Gospel Light Society International says to read a similar story below plus his editorial regarding that story but applies to this story as well:
THERE IS A DEVIL LOOSE: Some people, and amazingly including her husband Artemio Juarez, are rallying to the side of and raising money for the church-going woman Celina Juarez, who suffocated and murdered her 8-month-old little cherubic baby on her breast while feeding the baby, and who was getting ready to kill her other baby, saying, “She needs help, not jail.” Family and friends say she is a devoted parent who became overwhelmed when infant twins would not latch on to her breast. Daniel Whyte III, president of Gospel Light Society International, says, he will say this as kindly as he can knowing full well that this breaks the pro-women, feminist, evangelical, charismatic, Baptist, and WOKE rules: Even though this is a beautiful woman, she is a cold-blooded murderer of her own innocent, beautiful, cherubic infant, and could be easily charged with attempted murder of her other innocent, beautiful, cherubic infant that God blessed her with.
Whyte agrees that she is sick and needs help, but she also needs prison time for what she has done against God by not having natural affection for her child, and what she has done against her husband by murdering his precious child, and what she has done against the child’s siblings, and against society. And if you think Whyte is picking on this woman, who is a cold-blooded murderer, if the husband knew that this woman was fragile by seeing her not express natural affection for the children, or because she told him she was struggling, or because the toddler was complaining about things she was doing, or from his own God-given instincts as a man, a husband, and as a father, yet he left her alone with these children, he should go to prison as an accessory to murder. Somebody needs to investigate him as well and what was going on in that household.
Now, with that said, Whyte has a problem with the double standard that the church and society unfairly applies when it comes down to women and men; yet, the WOKE church and WOKE society support feminism and women being equal to men in every area except when it comes down to areas like this. For if the man got “frustrated” and “lost it” and slapped the child and the child died, we would not be hearing all of this talk about “he needs help–not jail.” He would be under the jail and on his way to prison for a long time regardless of what his wife would say in support of him. There would not be a “go-fund-me page” for his defense, and he would probably be told that he would never see his other children again. By the way, this woman should never see her children again, and especially not alone, without major supervision — and not just family, because it is Whyte’s opinion that she will kill the other children as well, for this is beyond just a woman getting frustrated; this is demonic activity.
Beyond this, Whyte is dealing with this because, unfortunately, this is an increasing problem across the United States — not so much in other countries — but in the United States where many people both women and men act like they cannot handle the normal pressures of life and who do not rise to the occasion because they have been lied to by the church and the media, and the little, cute half-hour to an hour shows on television and even movies that give people a false idea of what true life is. As he said in his best selling book Letters to Young Black Men, “there are far too many people living fiction lives in a non-fiction world.” He is calling on all husbands and fathers to take this matter very seriously, and if you see signs where your wife is fragile after a baby is born during the child-bearing years, or she does not express natural affection to the children, or she is not rising to the occasion as an adult should, you are going to have to step up and do some things differently like insisting on working at home, not to do her job, but so as to protect your children from being harmed by her, and to rebuke her for not rising to the occasion of acting like an adult when and if she acts like a child and does things to harm the children.
By the way, men, contrary to the sweet, evangelical church, this is love, too, and this is the kind of help your wife needs to grow in her job as a wife and mother and you insisting that she does her job so that you do not have to end up doing her job and your job, too. All of this talk about her being sick because she had a baby or she is experiencing so-called post-partum depression, in most cases, is hog-wash. In most cases, these women are mature enough to have and enjoy sex, but they are not mature enough to lovingly take care of the baby, and they resort to acting like a child and not a mature grown-up and throwing devastatingly, deadly temper tantrums harming or killing the child. As stated earlier, as a husband and a father, it is your job to be there in the house, not to do her job, but to protect your children and to rebuke her and teach her, yea, even train her to act like an adult, if you have to.
How do I know? That is what I had to do when I saw that my wife Meriqua Whyte was not prepared to be a mother and therefore not trusted to be left alone with the children. After preaching the Gospel and the Word of God for about ten years as a full-time evangelist across the country and around the globe, which I was going to continue after my wife and I got married, thinking that my wife would be like Billy Graham’s wife Ruth Bell Graham and be able to hold down the household and take care of the children, while I went out and did my job as a full-time evangelist, which was a ministry, however, God had blessed me to do well financially as long as I was preaching on the road, which would have continued to help our ministry and family out financially. In between traveling and preaching at meetings, we visited a close friend’s house and stayed with them a couple of days. I briefly went to the kitchen to get our food leaving my wife Meriqua Whyte with my beautiful, cherubic baby daughter Daniella (Danni) Whyte, who was probably eight or nine months old at the time — She could not have been a year yet. When I went back into the room, my beautiful baby daughter had an iron burn where the point of the iron was at the tip of the bottom of her eye; you could see the shape of the iron coming down on one side of her cheek. To this day, I believe my wife did it on purpose because there is just no way that could have happened any other way. In addition to that, I had her to breast-feed our first child and then the other six children after they came two years apart, and oftentimes while I was leading her in prayer, I would suddenly hear a blood-curdling, gasping-for-air choking sound coming from my baby, who was turning red and could hardly breathe, and it happened not only with my first child repeatedly, but to the other children as well. I believe to this day that she intentionally choked the children on her breast because she did not love her children or to try to get back at me because she knew I loved the children, or to try to cause some kind of problem against the ministry, which she has shown a strange Judas hatred for for years. So I came off the road to protect my first child and later our other children. It hurt us financially, but God gave me something else to do in the ministry full-time that allowed me to stay home to protect my children and to, unfortunately, teach her to act like an adult and a mother who would love and care for her children.
It was not a matter that my wife Meriqua Whyte was sick, it was a matter that her parents did not raise her properly, in addition to them divorcing; it was a matter of immaturity, and a matter of her not recognizing her immaturity and then rising to the occasion which some people do by the grace of God, and ultimately I found out that my wife had never been saved; she was religious and interested in church but she was not a born-again saved person. Sad to say, this harming the children and choking the children was just the beginning. She never wanted to tell the children I love you and she never wanted to hug the children throughout their childhood. I had to tell her to tell the children I love you; I had to tell her to say good night, I love you to the children. It had gotten to the point where the children froze up whenever she tried to hug them because they knew it was not sincere. And so at a certain point I stopped telling her to do it because the children were old enough to know she was not sincere, and she never did it on her own.
All of Whyte’s children are grown now. He has raised them by himself without much help from his wife. He had his wife do the dirty work such as wash dishes and clean the house. He had his wife to home-school the children, which she hated. He was the principal. But as Shakespeare said “All’s well that ends well.” The children are all alive. They are all grown now. Five have graduated from college and two are on their way. Two of the children have multiple degrees. And by the grace of God, they are doing well, other than fighting off the devil and WOKE family members and WOKE church members and WOKE co-workers because the devil is mad at them because they have helped their father in the ministry down through the years and because they are still helping him in the ministry. On December 19th, 2022, he and his wife will be celebrating 35 years of marriage and this is their first and only marriage, and divorce is not an option for either one of them, and Whyte believes that the only reason the marriage and the family has survived and stayed together is because of God saving his soul December 19th, 1979, and, by God’s grace, the Lord led him to lead the family in praying without ceasing, and in reading Ephesians chapters 5 and 6 everyday with his wife and children, and because he took seriously the Word of God in Ephesians chapters 5 and 6 about the man being the head of the family and adopted what Joshua said in the Bible as his motto “as for me and my house we are going to serve the Lord,” and then went forth and led his wife and children with a loving, firm, steady, stabilizing hand to great victory and great success in the ministry and in life. Contrary to WOKEISM in the church and in society, Whyte believes that men should be head of households and lovingly and strongly lead their wives and their children according to the Word of God, and that includes loving rebuke and chastisement when it is necessary.
- Celina Juarez has been charged with murder for the death of her eight-month-old daughter Melani
- She tried to feed Melani and her sister Zari after returning home from church on November 4
- The babies were ‘fussy’ and ‘wouldn’t latch on’ to her breasts which frustrated her, according to police
- In a rage, she held Melani forcefully against her breast until the infant kicked her legs and ‘gasped for air’
- She is now in custody on a murder charge – her husband is standing by her and fundraising for her defense
The family of a California mother charged with murder after smothering one of her eight-month-old twin daughters to death with her breast is appealing for donations and help from the public, saying the overwhelmed, young mother-of-three snapped in a moment of weakness and doesn’t deserve jail.
Celina Juarez, 29, is in custody in San Jose accused of murdering her eight-month-old daughter Melani.
On November 4, she held Melani against her breast for ten minutes, pushing her face against her skin and holding her down while she ‘kicked’ and ‘gasped for air’ after growing frustrated that she wouldn’t latch on to feed.
DailyMail.com can reveal the first photo of the 29-year-old with Melani, her twin sister Zari, their two-year-old brother and their father, Celina’s husband who is standing by her and fundraising for her defense.
Police say the mother intentionally killed her daughter, and that she was hungry after not eating throughout the day.
But the family insist she is a loving and dedicated mother who was overwhelmed and overworked trying to care for a toddler and infant twins.
Artemio, Celina’s husband, is now fundraising for her defense, insisting she needs ‘help not jail’.
‘Those who know her, know this is not in her character. She has devoted her entire life to children and her life revolves around our children and our family.
‘There are two sides to every story and we need all the help we can get to give Celina the chance to say hers! This judgment is not right she is a victim here too,’ he said.
The family is seeking to raise $10,000. So far, friends and strangers have donated $3,000.
Police say the young mother held Melani against her breast forcefully, ignoring her as she ‘gasped for air’ and kicked her legs, then placed her on a bed in the home.
The young mother-of-three then picked up Zari and attempted to do the same.
After trying to smother them both, she waited 20 minutes and then phoned her mother, who rushed to the house.
Source: Daily Mail Online, Jennifer Smith
To read more, click here: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-11466235/Family-woman-smothered-infant-breast-feeding-say-doesnt-deserve-jail.html
Husband of Massachusetts midwife accused of murdering their three young children says he FORGIVES her, as he gives searing insight into his ‘excruciating and relentless’ grief
- Patrick Clancy wrote about his heartbreak after his children, Cora, 5, Dawson, 3, and Callan, 8 months, were allegedly strangled by their mother Lindsay
- Lindsay, 32, who attempted suicide, was hospitalized and faces murder charges
- If you or someone you know is having suicidal thoughts, call the 24hr National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-8255
The heartbroken husband of a Massachusetts midwife accused of murdering their three young children has said he forgives her and asked for others to find it in their hearts to do the same.
Patrick Clancy, 34, gave searing insight into his ‘excruciating and relentless pain’ in a post on the family’s GoFundMe page, his first public remarks since the tragedy.
‘I want to ask all of you that you find it deep within yourselves to forgive Lindsay, as I have,’ Clancy wrote.
‘The real Lindsay was generously loving and caring towards everyone — me, our kids, family, friends, and her patients.
‘The very fibers of her soul are loving. All I wish for her now is that she can somehow find peace.’
Lindsay Clancy, 32, is accused of strangling their daughter Cora, five, son Dawson, three, and baby Callan, eight months, at the family home in Duxbury, Massachusetts, on Tuesday.
The two older children died that day and the baby died on Friday. Lindsay is still in a Boston hospital after herself attempting suicide. She is facing murder and assault charges, and is said to have been suffering post-natal depression at the time of the killings.
Patrick found his wife lying unconscious outside their home at about 6pm Tuesday and called 911. He had ‘popped out for 25 minutes’ to collect a takeout order.
Investigators are probing if the midwife, who was on leave from Massachusetts General Hospital, was suffering from postpartum psychosis.
She had written about her struggle with postpartum depression on her Facebook page just six weeks after the birth of Callan, who was born in May.
More than $690,000 had been raised by Saturday according to a GoFundMe page created for the family’s medical bills, funeral services, and legal help.
‘A lot of people have said they can’t imagine and they’re right, there’s absolutely nothing that can prepare you,’ Patrick Clancy wrote in the post on Saturday.
‘The shock and pain is excruciating and relentless. I’m constantly reminded of them and with the little sleep I get, I dream about them on repeat.’
Patrick wrote about his wife Lindsay, whom he married in 2016 in Southington, Connecticut, according to an engagement announcement in the Scituate Mariner.
‘Our marriage was wonderful and diametrically grew stronger as her condition rapidly worsened,’ he wrote.
‘I took as much pride in being her husband as I did in being a father and felt persistently lucky to have her in my life.
‘I still remember the very moment I first laid eyes on her and can recall how overcome I was with the kind of love at first sight you only see in movies. It really didn’t take long before I was certain I wanted to marry her.’
Patrick talked about Lindsay’s dedication to being a nurse and a mother.
‘We mutually understood the reality that people can have bad days, but we stuck to the rule that when one of us got lost, the other was always there to bring them home, always,’ he wrote.
‘She loved being a nurse, but nothing matched her intense love for our kids and dedication to being a mother. It was all she ever wanted. Her passion taught me how to be a better father.’
He asked for forgiveness for Lindsay, as he said he has forgiven her. ‘I want to ask all of you that you find it deep within yourselves to forgive Lindsay, as I have,’ he wrote.
‘The real Lindsay was generously loving and caring towards everyone – me, our kids, family, friends, and her patients.
‘The very fibers of her soul are loving. All I wish for her now is that she can somehow find peace.’
Patrick wrote that his ‘family was the best thing that ever happened’ to him.
‘I took so much pride in being Lindsay’s husband and a dad to Cora, Dawson, and Callan. I always reminded myself that each day with them was a new gift.’
‘Any parent knows, it’s impossible to understand how much you will love your kids until you have them.
‘The same goes for understanding the devastation of losing them. Cora, Dawson, and Callan were the essence of my life and I’m completely lost without them.’
Patrick went on to talk about each child and described them as he would always remember them.
Cora, the couple’s first born, had an infectious laugh and was stunningly beautiful. She was the cautious one, but it was because she was so caring, he said. A caring older sister to her brothers Dawson and Callan.
If you or someone you know is having suicidal thoughts, call the 24hr National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-8255; contact the Crisis Text Line by texting TALK to 741741; or chat with someone online at suicidepreventionlifeline.org.
Source: Daily Mail Online, Andrea Cavallier
To read more, click here: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-11688463/Husband-Massachusetts-midwife-accused-murdering-three-children-says-forgives-her.html
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