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In peacetime — that is, when things are going well — too many of us live like fools. When our bills are being paid on time and the children are relatively healthy, when work feels like it’s clipping along and all we can see in the future is a bright horizon, we should be thankful. But we should also beware.
These are the moments when it’s easy to get sloppy. We begin to befriend the status quo. We take the path of least resistance. We take the low road simply because it requires less from us. And as much as we hate unimaginative clichés like the ones I’ve just used, we look up one day to discover that we’ve actually been living one. Sadly, sometimes only a crisis can wake us up.
As a pastor, I see this every day. I spend an inordinate amount of my life with people, in their highest highs and their deepest lows. I celebrate weddings and grieve the unexpected divorces; I officiate baptisms and preside over burials; and I dedicate young babies to God and pray with parents waiting for their twenty-something prodigal to come home. My work often situates me on the front-lines of the human condition.
Greatest Threat That Comes Against Believers in Peacetime
It would be twofold: boredom and distraction. We grow weary of doing the same old things we have done for, say, the last two decades. We feel like we have “been there, done that” with all this Jesus stuff, and wonder if this is all there is. Our boredom causes us to forsake the routines that were a part of our holy formation. We get distracted and turn away from the disciplines that got us where we are to see if there’s something new and flashy out there. Like the believers in the church of Ephesus, many of us have left our “first love” and “have fallen” away from the things we “did at first” (Rev. 2:3–5 nasb). The fire of our love for Jesus “that once burned bright and clean” has turned into a pile of flickering embers.
I have observed this church-abandoning phenomenon particularly among those who are in the middle of life, between the ages of forty-five and fifty-five. When we are younger, we are just humble enough to acknowledge that we need help. Life seems so complex. We are looking for decent work and a stable living situation, hoping to get our feet squarely under us. The need for support is especially acute for young couples raising small children. We watch the news and realize just how high the stakes are in this crazy world. We somehow instinctively know that the old “it takes a village” axiom is right, so we’re more willing to get the kids up, get them fed and dressed, and drive them to church all the while they’re (sometimes) fighting it. Indeed, the latest Pew Research poll bears out my theory. And according to Christianity Today, “about 2 out of 3 American adults who regularly attend church or other religious services say they go for their kids” (emphasis mine).
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SOURCE: Christian Post, Daniel Grothe