In the Midst of Crisis, Pastor John Gray and Wife Aventer Gray of Relentless Church Celebrate Nine Years of Marriage

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HEY…HEY BABE…LOOK AT ME!!! FOCUS THIS WAY…THIS IS US! WE ARE 9! It’s Our anniversary. We made it Whewwweee! Didn’t the enemy try it? LOL The gratitude I have for the journey & the opportunities to grow, fuel my passion for God's purpose through our collective even more. 12/11/10…Atlanta, GA 12:11p.m….music started & with anticipation, I waited 4 the processional to move along, & when it was my turn to take my walk with daddy, I took a breath & said, FOREVER. “LOOK AT ME!” Here is the thing, Don’t take the VOW “For Better or Worse” if you are going to have your Adidas prepared & ready at the first sight of Worse. Life happens & some things are meant to reveal where we need to heal & grow. “LOOK AT ME!” Ladies, If you can be cool, smiling, present, & riding for the BETTER, then be in prayer, be still, assess, & trust & believe God during the WORSE, because they are both necessary. RICHER AND POORER…I paid the $334 Electric bill at a house I had yet to sleep in when we returned from the Honeymoon, right babe, because the way that acct was set up after the nice wedding was hilarious! “LOOK AT ME!” We built, WE worked. We planned, We made mistakes. We invested well and then not so well. You brought your worldview to the covenant & I brought mine. Our issues collided & since that is necessary, the explosions of the innermost depths of our deficits having light on them uprooted a settling we were cool with when we only had ourselves to answer too. I’m so proud of the man you actually are. The Heart Guy, The Giver, The Motivator, The Pastor, The Artist, The Leader, The Husband, and The Father. “LOOK AT ME!” I LOVE YOU!! These 9 years have some incredible, astounding Fruit. All that was sent to shake us, made us GREATER in the Eyes of our GOD! Being Real is a beautiful trait. It’s sooo amazing, bc Real people can be trusted with helping others! I am honored to Stand beside, Lead , Grow, & Share this life with YOU! It’s been 9 years, & at our 8th Vow Renewal, we declared “RESET” & OH GOD, He did just that!! I’m so excited for the next 4EvA. Your best days are in front of you. WATCH GOD and “LOOK AT ME! 😘” #AveyGramAnniversaryEdition #GraysAre9 #121110

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