Multi-platinum recording artist Jaci Velasquez has opened up about how she overcame the difficulties of early fame, a failed marriage and the challenges that come with having a child with autism.
“If we all act like we have it all put together and have it all together like our Instagram posts, make it look like we have, who can relate to that? Because nobody has it all together,” she told The Christian Post.
Velasquez details her journey in her new book, When God Rescripts Your Life: Seeing Value, Beauty and Purpose When Life Is Interrupted.
“It’s actually a collection of stories. Some failures, some joy, some fears, some things that I thought would be helpful for others to make them feel like they are not alone, if you will, to help them understand that sometimes I am guilty and we are guilty of confusing our dreams with God’s dreams and confusing our vision with God’s calling. And sometimes our poor choices take us off track,” she explained.
“But God and His goodness and His redeeming way can take those missteps, those poor choices, those mistakes, and He can receive them and make them beautiful, and make it to where you say, ‘Oh, wow, You do make beauty from ashes.'”
The singer, actress and radio host noted that the Bible makes over 7,000 promises and although she hasn’t always kept her promises to God, He has always kept His promises to her.
Velasquez came to fame as a teenager and quickly became the first and fastest-selling solo artist in Christian music history to reach gold status with her debut album. Her career would eventually stall and her first marriage ended after little more than a year. Despite so much heartbreak and disappointment, God has since repurposed those experiences for a greater plan and Velasquez has since remarried and now has two sons.
“Every single one of us has made a poor choice. When my son was two and he put his hands on a little fireplace after I repeatedly told him, ‘No, don’t do that.’ It burnt him and he cried. He made a mistake, I told him not to but he did,” she said.
“So from the time that we have the ability to do things, we make mistakes and we walk in disobedience. Because walking in obedience is so hard, it is so much easier to do what we want to do. But when we do what we want to do, we make poor choices, and we fail at something.”
Every choice has consequences, be it good or bad, Velasquez maintained. She said people should ask God what He’s calling them to. She warned that sometimes what He calls people to walk through is difficult but obedience to God is always best.
Velasquez discovered that her eldest son, Zealand, was diagnosed with autism in the spring of 2013 when he started school in Nashville. After the ASD diagnosis, the loving mom became a spokesperson for autism advocacy and has used her talents to fundraise and spread awareness. Raising a son with autism, however, has its challenges and in her new book, Velasquez is open about her journey.
“We serve a God who can redeem the poor choices from our lives and make them into beautiful things and make them into what He has designed. When my son oldest Zealand, when he got diagnosed as being autistic, I remember, I was so angry with God. I was so angry, I was like, ‘Really? My husband and I have been making music and ministering about you, to you, for you. Since I was nine years old, I’ve been doing this,'” she told CP.
The Houston native recalled praying over her stomach when she was pregnant and always felt the assurance that her son would have a ministry. So she found it hard to reconcile the fact that he had autism.
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SOURCE: Christian Post, Jeannie Law