By Jonathan Pearson
Several months ago, I wrote a post outlining some signs that who you’re dating may be the one to settle down with and marry. I wanted to follow that up with a post outlining some ways you can know that who you’re dating is not the one to marry.
The truth is, more marriages end in divorce these days than stay intact for life. We have to be sure that who we’re committing our life to is the one that we can spend the rest of our life with.
Marriage is a big deal to God, regardless of what society has made it.
Here you go, four signs that who you’re dating is not the one…
1. This person is not the one if you don’t see eye to eye spiritually.
This is the biggy. There’s that thing about being unequally yoked in 2 Corinthians 6, and Paul meant what he said.
The priorities, challenges, temptations, battles and loves of a believer and a nonbeliever make it very difficult to marry someone outside of the Christian faith. When the first big storm of marriage comes, it’s important that you see eye to eye on Who can help fix it.
Many marriages end because people didn’t get this right. Be careful. (Note: If you are married to a nonbeliever, there IS still hope. Don’t give up.)
2. This person is not the one if you aren’t best friends.
One of the biggest reasons I married my wife is because she was my best friend. I knew when I married her that we clicked socially and relationally.
It’s in those friend moments that we know we’ve made the right choice. Is sex good? Yes! Is friendship the glue for the relationship? Definitely.
Make sure you’re best friends with him or her…it will be a lot more fun!
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Source: Church Leaders