LISTEN: Doing Marriage God’s Way, Part 8 — Ephesians 5:28-30 (Revive the Family, Revive the Church, Awaken the Nation, O Lord #32 with Daniel Whyte III)

A series of homilies on Ephesians 5 & 6

A homily is “a short talk on a religious or moral topic; a usually short sermon; a lecture or discourse on or of a biblical theme.”


Daniel Whyte III
Daniel Whyte III

I am sharing a verse-by-verse series of short messages on Ephesians 5 & 6 (as well as other passages of Scripture) specifically targeted at reviving families and encouraging and exhorting husbands, wives, fathers, mothers, and children to do what God has commanded them to do, for if the church is to be revived and the country is to be awakened, the family must be revived first.

Ephesians 5:22-30:

22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.

23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.

24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.

25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;

26 That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word,

27 That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish.

28 So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.

29 For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church:

30 For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones.

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Mark Dunagan said, “‘To hate one’s wife is as irrational as it is to hate one’s own flesh.’ Just as a man instinctively does these things for his body, so must he be concerned for every aspect of his wife’s well-being: physical, mental, emotional, social, and spiritual.”

Leonard Ravenhill said, “Evangelists today are very often prepared to be anything to anybody as long as they can get somebody to the altar for something. They glibly call out: ‘Who wants help? Who wants more power? Who wants a closer walk with God?’ Such a sinning, repenting ‘easy believeism’ dishonors the blood and prostitutes the altar. The altar is a place to die on. Let those who will not pay this price leave it alone!”

Paul continues his argument on how a husband is to love his wife. He says, “No man ever yet hated his own flesh.” No normal man hates, or as the Greek word says, “detests,” his own body. He loves and cares for it. He tries to improve it and preserve it in any way that he can.

Furthermore, Paul says he “nourisheth and cherisheth it.” The Greek word Paul uses for “nourish” means to help bring up to maturity, to care for as it grows. The word he uses for “cherish” means “to keep warm; to cherish with tender love, to foster with tender care.”

A husband who nourishes and cherishes his wife (as he does himself) will provide for her, guard her, and protect her from exposure and want “even as the Lord does the church.” This means that a husband must communicate with his wife and the wife with her husband, just as Christians are commanded to communicate with God through prayer and God communicates with us through His Word and through the Holy Spirit. A husband must be attentive and attuned to the needs of his wife just as Christ is attentive to the needs of his church. The husband is most fulfilling in his role when he is most like Christ.

Revive the Family Prayer List

PRAY FOR SPECIFIC FAMILIES

— Shanquetta in Iowa
for her family to get a decent housing situation and not be homeless
for her husband to keep the faith and remain strong
strength for her three brothers and mother

— Kylie
deliver her from severe pain, pain medication addiction, sorrow

— Shwante and Nikeia
for her sister to be healed

— Mindy
for her small business to find success
for her husband’s job to be blessed and protected
for their 2 daughters to be successful in their studies and work

— Lucette in Texas
for her friend Bikash and his atheist friend to be saveda

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PRAY FOR CHURCH LEADERS

Regional Leaders of the United Methodist Church

— Leaders of the New York Region

Tim Riss
Kenneth Kieffer
Adrienne Brewington
Sungchan Kim
Denise Smartt Sears
Elizabeth J. Ott

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PRAY FOR GOVERNMENTAL LEADERS

U.S. CONGRESSPEOPLE

Elizabeth Esty
Emanuel Cleaver
Eric Swalwell
Erik Paulsen
Evan Jenkins
Filemon Vela
Frank Guinta
Frank LoBiondo
Frank D. Lucas
Frank Pallone

Daniel Whyte III has spoken in meetings across the United States and in over twenty-five foreign countries. He is the author of over forty books. He is also the president of Gospel Light Society International, a worldwide evangelistic ministry that reaches thousands with the Gospel each week, as well as president of Torch Ministries International, a Christian literature ministry which publishes a monthly magazine called The Torch Leader. He is heard by thousands each week on his radio broadcasts/podcasts, which include: The Prayer Motivator Devotional, The Prayer Motivator Minute, as well as Gospel Light Minute X, the Gospel Light Minute, the Sunday Evening Evangelistic Message, the Prophet Daniel’s Report, the Second Coming Watch Update and the Soul-Winning Motivator, among others. He holds a Bachelor’s Degree in Theology from Bethany Divinity College, a Bachelor’s degree in Religion from Texas Wesleyan University, a Master’s degree in Religion, a Master of Divinity degree, and a Master of Theology degree from Liberty University School of Divinity. He has been married to the former Meriqua Althea Dixon, of Christiana, Jamaica for over twenty-seven years. God has blessed their union with seven children. Find out more at www.danielwhyte3.com. Follow Daniel Whyte III on Twitter @prophetdaniel3 or on Facebook.