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People Are Leaving for the Cool New Church! Now What?
Seven steps to help us rediscover our passion and stop comparing ourselves to others.

There’s a disease infecting many of our churches. I call it Cool Church Cancer.

It’s a progressive disease that happens in three steps:

Step 1: A cool, new church comes to town. Or a cool, new pastor.

Step 2: Some people leave our church for the cool church.

Step 3: We respond with anger, jealousy or both.

(Note: sometimes steps two and three happen in reverse order.)

I know about this first-hand, because there are a lot of cool, new churches where I live, in Orange County, California. Cool big churches. Cool huge churches. Cool super-duper-mega-churches.

My church isn’t one of them.

Instead, every Sunday morning, thousands of church-goers drive past our front door on their way to dozens of cool churches.

That used to bother me. A lot.

As I outline in the second chapter of The Grasshopper Myth, “How Trying to Build a Big Church Nearly Killed Me – and My Church”, I tried to copy the cool churches. Then I got jealous of them. Then I got mad. Then I burned out.

Finally, I grew tired of feeling jealous, got help, started redefining success and changed my attitudes and actions.

Today, I’m a Cool Church Cancer survivor.

The first step in my cure? Recognizing that the cool church wasn’t the cancer. My anger and jealousy of them was the cancer. And it was killing me and my church, not them.

Here are seven lessons I learned the hard way. I hope they can help you so you don’t make the same mistakes I made.

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SOURCE: Christianity Today – Leadership Journal
Karl Vaters