4 Ways for Parents to Give the Gift of Reading to Their Children

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If you were conducting a poll and asked me if I read regularly to my children, I would say yes. I can name chapter books we have enjoyed with our older two: James and the Giant Peach, Pippi Longstocking, The Trumpet of the Swan, among others. I can point to our youngest child’s favorite book of the moment—Kevin Henkes’ Chrysanthemum.

Similarly, if you were to take a walk around our house, you would find lots and lots of books. Books in piles, books on shelves, books tucked into drawers and in boxes in the closets. Novels and picture books and chapter books and textbooks. Books from when we were children. Books bought at the local independent bookstore. Books purchased from Amazon. Lots and lots of books.

Reading is an integral part of our family. And yet—despite my assertion that we are a family of readers—many nights come and go without opening a book. We have a party to go to, or it is movie night, or the kids have a babysitter, or it just gets too late and the night slips away and the book sits on the bedstand unopened yet again. Plenty of afternoons come and go when the kids would happily snuggle up to my side and listen to me narrate a story, but there is just too much to do. Laundry and dishes and lunches for tomorrow and dinner for tonight.

So many distractions. So much to do. And, with the introduction of not only television but computers and other devices, so much that satisfies their need for stories without involving me.

For instance, one night last week I listened to NPR as I made dinner. Marilee (age 3) was watching Caillou on the computer. William (almost 6) had parked himself in front of Wild Kratts in the family room. Penny (age 8), my outlier, was reading Junie B. Jones. She can read to herself now, and she chooses books over tv a lot of the time. But that’s only after hours and hours and hours of interaction with adults who read to her throughout her early years. That’s only after I set intentional boundaries with screentime and actually stuck to them. With the younger two, less reading, more screens.

I suspect I’m not alone. Common Sense Media came out with a report last week about kids’ and teens’ reading in which it found that reading rates among adolescents “dropped precipitously.” Only 17% of 17-year olds call themselves “daily readers.” Similarly, fewer than half of all teenagers report that they read for pleasure. And as study after study has shown, and this report confirms, girls read more than boys on average, and white children tend to have higher reading skills than black and Latino children. Reading is in decline among our adolescents, which should put those of us with pre-adolescent children on the alert.

As I’ve thought about these reports, I’ve realized that I’m not worried that my kids won’t learn to read. They will. They will read with proficiency, as will most of the children in America. But will they experience the pleasure of immersing themselves in a story that transplants them to another physical, historical, social or emotional world? Will they be amazed by the way a book can aid their imaginations? Will they look forward to reading a novel at the beach on vacation? I am not concerned about their abilities, but I worry they won’t learn to love reading.

Parents face two barriers in passing along the joy of reading. There’s the cultural barrier: reading competes with television shows, internet activities, video games, tablets, and smart phones, and just as we tend to choose fast food over home-cooked meals, we tend to gravitate toward the easier purveyor of content. There’s also the educational barrier: as schools insist upon more and more nonfiction reading, kids begin to see books as means to the end of information gathering rather than an end in and of themselves. But I have to believe that we parents can do something to give the gift of reading to our children.

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SOURCE: Christianity Today
Amy Julia Becker

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